Relationships these days are like.....
Halls rooms are buzzing with web series or movies. Pillows getting warm with mobile phones. Oldies spend their time watching TV serial, hoping for their children to spend little time talking and sharing. Children are occupied with their gazets. This is family life in today's time. You connect with everyone on phone, even with your family members sending and liking their messages on social media, but a word to share is missing. Whats app is convenient means to share with the world about life status, but a person wailing beside is ignored. Children are lonely, with no friends to play with or siblings to fight with. They occupy themselves in the virtual world, believing in every sight and voice. They are the future of this world.
Today mental problems are elevating, loneliness has crept into our lives. Suicide cases are brimming. If children are given this environment to grow then, they will be mentally sick. A mental sick generation will ruin this world. Let's be conscious of our usage of gazets, mobiles or TVs. Family should stay together, live together sharing, caring and loving. The family should acknowledge the presence of other family members. Nobody should be left alone in their rooms to wail to feel lonely. When people are there in the house then loneliness should be out of the house. If a member is suffering depression in the house, it's the responsibility of the other members to know the reason behind it. If in your presence, your mother, father, brother or sister or even your own children are undergoing depression then it's your responsibility to cure it. Depression is another word for loneliness or feeling less loved.
I remember my mother looking for ways to talk to her children. But when she was alive we didn't bother to spare time or visit her. Now when she is not here with us, we long for that companionship. I also remember when my father in law would seek opportunities to talk to us. He will invite us to spend time with him in his house, which we ignored. Then died hoping to travel together to southern regions of India with family. He wanted to share the experience of travelling by train to different regions of southern India with him, but we never took out time for his dream. He would sit and wait for us to talk, desperately he will sit with us when we used to retire for the day to bed. Today we can just regret it.
But, it's never too late. Money will come, success will come too but people who will die will never return back. Better to cherish the moment now and never regret it later. This feeling of regret is worse than living a life with compromised successful life!
You all are intelligent people with high intellect, you can decide the course of life.

Very nicely described
ReplyDeleteEach one is on a journey....one has to keep walking.
ReplyDeleteThe new connectedness does feel more digital and less personal....yet one has to traverse and keep walking.
For you I would say, keep writing....